We Made It!

    On Saturday, December 11, I graduated with my Master of Science degree from Minnesota State University-Mankato. I must take the opportunity to thank my supportive and loving husband for helping me accomplish this goal. He willingly helped pay for my graduate degree, he lovingly encouraged me through hours of homework and projects, and he thoughtlessly served me by taking care of the details of our life while I was so busy. This past week we were remembering that I have been working on grad school for the past two and a half years. We could not even remember what life was like before I had classes to complete. We made it!

    To some of you, December 11th has another significance. It is the date of one of the Top 10 snowfalls in the Twin Cities. I started hearing about the blizzard on Thursday night. My mom, dad, brother, and sister-in-law were all planning to come to Minnesota for graduation celebrations. I called my mom to warn her about the snow.

    Once everyone arrived on Friday night, we found this notice from Mankato State. We looked into getting a hotel for the night but decided to sleep in our comfortable beds and leave at 6:30 am Saturday morning in hopes of making it to campus for the Department of Education’s hooding ceremony at 9 am. My dad and Jesse awoke and shoveled the first 7 inches of snow. All six of us piled into one car and set off. On the drive to Mankato (81 miles), we were met with unplowed highways and blowing snow. At 9:10 am we ran into the Performing Arts Center slipping and sliding through the parking lot on the ice beneath the snow. My family sat down and I ran onto the stage for my hooding. We made it!

    After the ceremony an administrative assistant helped us map a route to the graduation ceremony through the academic buildings of campus, but we had to cross one street to find the tunnels. With our first steps out of the building, we were slipping, sliding and falling on the ice. We turned a corner up to the building, and the wind and snow almost blew us over. Laughing and joking, we found the Taylor Center and attended the ceremony. We made it!

    After the ceremony, we all piled back into the car for the drive home. Driving through the streets of Mankato were treacherous, and we left behind cars  and trucks spinning their wheels. Once on the highway, we traveled at a slow 30 miles per hour. We caught up with a caravan of cars and attempted to travel with them. My dad had Jesse and I in the front seat as spotters. Every minute he asked, “Where am I?” Based on the few pieces of the road we could see we would answer left lane or right lane. The snow continued and the wind picked up. Many times my dad would ask, “Where am I?” and Jesse and I didn’t even have an answer. We couldn’t see the road, we couldn’t see the caravan of cars, we couldn’t see anything.

    I did see a sign for a hotel 2 miles ahead. We saw the hotel but saw no way to get to the hotel. We decided to take the next exit. Getting off on the exit, our car got stuck in the snow. We could not even see roads to turn on to head in the direction of the hotel. We stopped in a turn lane to decide what to do. An angel in the form of a tow truck pulled up alongside us. We shouted AmericInn out the window. He replied, “Follow me”. He lead us through “streets” a foot deep in snow but we continued on knowing if we got stuck he could pull us out. With gale force winds blowing us down, we ran from the parking lot into the hotel. We made it!

    I explained that we had six people. A woman at the desk let me know there were two king bed rooms available. The woman next to her was on the phone explaining that they had two rooms available. The person helping me looked at me and asked, “Do you want the rooms?” I replied yes and the person on the phone was out of luck. We got the last two rooms in the hotel. Later my dad asked, “How much did I end up paying for these rooms?”

    We went to our rooms and collapsed for a rest. Thankfully, the hotel had a family restaurant across the parking lot. We spent the evening enjoying dinner and watching the movie The Lion, The Witch, and The Wardrobe. We slept boys in one room, girls in the other.

    This morning we set out for Eagan only to find more unplowed roads and a driveway covered with 4 foot drifts. The boys shoveled a path and we were home. The snow storm total in the area where we were was 20.5 inches. We made it!

    Our adventure and detours this weekend add another story to our crazy family memories. Thank you mom and dad for your dedication and encouragement. Thank you Eric and Alaina for your support and sacrifice. I love you! We made it!

      How do you wear this?

      After working for two and a half years on my master’s degree in Library Media Education, I will be graduating from graduate school on December 11. Because I worked so hard, I decided I wanted to walk in the graduation ceremony. Plus, you get to wear those fun hoods, right?

      Well, this week my graduation apparel came in the mail. I opened it up and started putting it on. To my dismay, I could not figure out how to put the hood on. I did what any child of the technology age would do and googled it. I read articles, watched videos, and STILL can’t figure out how to wear it. And they are going to give me a master’s degree???

        Twas the Eve of Thanksgiving

        Twas the eve of Thanksgiving
        And all through the night
        On the road we did go
        It caused quite a fright.

        While others were dreaming
        Of turkey and stuffing
        Except for this poem
        We did absolutely nothing.

        It began with the traffic
        Continued with the snow
        It ended with rainfall
        To mother’s house we did go.

        We found ourselves blessed
        As the wind fiercely blowed
        Many unfortunate souls
        Off the unplowed road.

        We were greeted in Neenah
        With a hug and a kiss
        From our family to yours:
        Thanksgiving bliss!

          I Believe…

          My final semester of grad school has been very difficult. I have hit many obstacles and been disappointed by people again and again. This weekend my belief in the good of mankind has been restored.

          It always seems like things happen when Jesse leaves early to be somewhere. If you remember, he left early for work the day I got a flat tire.

          Yesterday he left early for a conference on the day it snowed 10″. Because Jesse’s family was in town for the weekend, I needed to go to the grocery store. I decided to get my exercise and shovel my half of the driveway. On my way to the store I realized none of the roads in my neighborhood had been plowed yet. It was very difficult getting to the grocery store.

          After I returned from the store, I decided to shovel Jesse’s half so we could be on time for Aubrie’s (our niece) birthday party. I had just finished the driveway when the plow came to place a waist high snowbank at the end of my driveway. I just stood and stared at him with my mouth open. With resignation I walked to the end of the driveway and continued shoveling. He made another pass to clear the other side of the road. When I heard the beeping a third time, I began to have hope. Sure enough, he plowed right into my driveway and cleared the entire snowbank in one pass.

          This man, in a very simple way, made my day! Thank you Mr. Plow Man, I believe again…

            The 15-Minute Meal

            We had the best dinner tonight…and I made it in 15 minutes or less! On my way home from working out, I called Jesse to boil water. When I arrived home, I put noodles on to boil for 8 minutes. I pulled Cavatini sauce from the freezer and warmed it in the microwave. Jesse chopped lettuce for a salad. At the last minute, I warmed up two crescent rolls, and we were ready to eat.

            When I proclaimed this a 15-minute meal, Jesse and I cracked up. The Cavatini sauce is not a quick and easy recipe, but we had some leftover the last time I made it, so I froze it for the future. We also had the crescent rolls leftover from a dinner this weekend. So basically, you could never make this meal in 15-minutes, but I was thankful that I was able to tonight!

              Visitors

              Jesse and I are notorious for traveling on the weekends. We love to visit our families and friends even when they live far away. This fall we are experiencing a change of pace. We are staying home and everyone is coming to visit US!

              It began last weekend when Larry & Cyndee came from Chicago to see the Sutherland family. It was a beautiful Saturday, so we enjoyed biking and playing outside.

              This past weekend my parents came for a visit. Because of MEA, I had Thursday and Friday off of school. My parents came Wednesday night from Neenah, and we enjoyed a long 4-day weekend. The weather was again beautiful, so we hiked the Minnihaha Falls area as well as saw the movie Secretariat and did some shopping. Jesse and my dad even fixed the brakes in one of our cars.

              Next weekend my brother and sister-in-law were going to visit, but my brother ended up having to work in Canada for the next three weeks. We are going to reschedule for December.

              In the beginning of November our good friends Scott and Melissa from Neenah are visiting our house for the first time. They have been in Florida for the last three years, so they haven’t been able to see our home.

              The next weekend Larry and Cyndee will return to celebrate Aubrie’s (our niece) 3rd birthday.

              We don’t mind driving, but we are certainly enjoying staying home. If only my house would clean itself…and wash all of the sheets and towels!

                Babyland

                Between the years of 2006 and 2008, we attended MANY weddings. In the last few weeks, we have gone from being friends with young married couples to being friends with young families.

                Five weeks ago my friend Amanda and her husband had their first baby Selah. We enjoyed a baby shower with them on Saturday. A few weeks ago my grandparents enjoyed the birth of their first great-grandchild born to Michael and and my cousin Kristi. Many friends of ours have called in recent weeks with exciting news…

                As excited as we are, it is also a bit sad for Jesse & I. Change is always hard, and we know that our friendships with some of our best friends will soon be changing. We also are feeling a bit left behind. We could certainly do something about that, but we aren’t quite ready.

                The conversation used to go, “What would you think about a baby?”

                “No way!”

                Now the conversation is evolving to, “Let’s have a baby…sooner than later.”

                In the meantime one of the funnest things about our friends having babies is more trips to Target…gift registries here we come!

                  Update…

                  Many of you have wondered about the progress of our lawn…

                  After faithful watering, we are beginning to see growth. Whew! We were worried.

                  New Growth
                  Our New Lawn

                    Fall Shopping Extravaganza

                    Early this summer Jesse informed me he was ready for a new look. I quickly retorted that a new look required shopping, and he hates shopping. To my shock, he replied, “Okay”. To budget our money, we use the envelope system, so I started saving the money in the clothes envelope for a fall shopping adventure. I brought up our shopping trip many times, but Jesse kept putting it off. I finally threatened to spend the money in the envelope on new clothes for me, and Jesse agreed to go shopping.

                    We began the afternoon going through our closet and sorting clothes to donate and clothes to trash. Then we each made a list of clothing items we wanted to add to our wardrobe. Jesse’s list included something a mannequin would wear.

                    We left home and headed straight to lunch. I have learned that a hungry Jesse equals an I hate shopping Jesse. After lunch we began with a few successful purchases from The Gap. Jesse was energized and in a good mood (we found something straight off a mannequin)! Upon entering Macy’s, I began to see Jesse’s eyes glaze over. We pushed through and made it to American Eagle, Target, and Kohl’s.

                    Seven hours later Jesse said, “I finally like my clothes.” Success!