New Recipes

    I enjoy cooking and also enjoy cooking magazines. I often find recipes that I want to try. For the longest time, I didn’t know how to organize my recipes. I began a binder entitled “Andrea’s Recipes”. In this binder, I typed in all of my favorite recipes, printed them, and divided them by section (Breakfast, Dinner, Sides, Desserts, etc.).

    When I found a new recipe from a magazine, I would tear it out and stick it in the front of my binder. Pretty soon, the front of the binder was full. Then I decided to begin file folders for new recipes (using the same sections as my binder). Only once I have tried a recipe and like it, do I stick it in the front of the binder to be entered onto the computer, printed, and added to the correct section.

    Usually, I try new recipes and don’t like them. I am a relatively picky eater. Today, though, I tried a new recipe and liked it. The recipe is Rachel Ray’s 30 Minute Meal of Red and Green Pesto with Pasta and Lemon Shrimp. I was so proud that my meal even looked like the picture! The meal was the perfect blend of flavors with just a bit of a kick, plus I learned how to char red peppers and scrape off the skin.

    Just like the recipe photo!
    Our beautiful centerpiece courtesy of Jesse delivered to school on Friday.

      Budgeting

      One of the frequent conversations in marriage is money. Both spouses come into a marriage with their own saving and spending habits. For the two of us, we began marriage with Jesse’s first job and added the income of my first job. We felt rich!

      Then we bought a house…we love our house, but it was the first hurdle in our financial decision-making. We tightened our budget and continued on.

      Then I began graduate school…when we took on paying for my Master’s degree, Jesse and I decided to move to an envelope system. At the beginning of each month, we take enough cash out of the bank to pay for our daily expenses. This system helps us better track our spending in different areas and truly stick to a budget.

      Then we started thinking about a family. We have always valued saving for the future, but this year our goal is to live as much as possible off of one income in order to save the other income. This conversation involves sacrifice and saving money in small ways: energy efficiency, the most effective insurance plan, and cutting back in ALL areas even the fun ones!

      Then whatever comes our way, Jesse and I are able to have the important conversations about how we save and spend money.

      Proverbs 24:3-4 “By wisdom a house is built, and by understanding it is established; and by knowledge the rooms are filled with all precious and pleasant riches.”

        New Year’s in Arizona

        To complete our tri-state trip, we flew to Phoenix, Arizona on Tuesday, December 28th. Many people asked, “Why Phoenix?” My aunt Brook (my dad’s sister) and her husband Chris live in Arizona, and my grandparents (my dad’s parents) are living in Phoenix for the winter. Sadly, we were unable to get the whole Lashbrook family together (we missed you GE and Janet, Travis and Shannon, Michael, Kristi, and Karina)!

        The first morning it was cool and cloudy, but we decided to go for a hike in the North mountain range. The North mountains are within walking distance of my aunt’s house. We started out with 3 dogs, my aunt, uncle, mom, dad, Jesse and I. When it started to sprinkle, my dad, Jesse, and I remained on the hike with one of the dogs.

        It felt amazing to be outside without a coat. I also loved the smell of grass and earth. It is amazing the smells that get covered by snow. My dad “thought” he knew the hike he went on with my aunt the day before. It turns out he was a little uncertain. We should have been circling back around one of the mountains, but we weren’t. Jesse had the bright idea to head up, so we could see our surroundings. He continued to go up and up until we determined we were on a trail to the top of the peak. A few times, the dog looked at us like we were crazy when we asked him to go through rocks and over the landscape. We called my aunt for guidance. She didn’t know where we were.

        Determined not to go back the way we came, we charted a course between two mountains. We eventually found the trail again and made it home. Using Google Map we were able to determine we were trying to go “around” the wrong mountain.

        "Let's go up...it's an adventure, Andrea, right?"

        Our first evening we celebrated Christmas.

        The Boys (Jesse, Chris, Eric, Grandpa, Glen, and Barossa)
        The Girls (Alaina, Brook, me, Grandma, and Janet)
        Eric doing his job as Santa

        One thing the Lashbrooks always like to do when we are together is eat. During this trip, I set out to learn two of our famous family recipes. Brook and I made her homemade crescent rolls, and I finally wrote down the recipe for my grandma’s chicken and dumplings.

        Rolling out the dough (her's were prettier than mine...I guess what I tell my students is true about practice)
        Christmas Dinner (yes, this is #3 if you are counting)
        I recorded the recipe but it is really about the taste and feel...will I ever be able to replicate this?
        Making Mashed Potatoes (We don't look alike, do we?)

        The rest of the week was chilly for Phoenix, so we played lots of games and talked with our other family members over Skype.

        Favorite games: Monopoly Deal, Loaded Questions, Bananagrams, Aquire, and Ticket to Ride
        Hello, France! I have become a huge fan of Skype.

        My sister-in-law, Alaina, was in the middle of the Hunger Games book series. We didn’t see much of her!

        Every year over New Year’s, my aunt and uncle’s neighborhood throws a potluck block party. This year there was a live DJ. We danced, ate, remembered the old year and celebrated the New Year.

        Still in Love (5 years this summer!)

        Thanks Lashbrook family for a great New Year’s!

          Christmas Up North

          On Saturday, December 25th we awoke in Chicago to find that Santa had arrived!

          Cyndee has a new bike! Way to go Santa!

          Jesse was also excited by what Santa left for him.

          A Blu-ray player!

          In typical Sutherland style, we jumped in the car and headed Up North. We met Josh, Katie, Cody, and Aubrie for a delicious Christmas dinner. Then we opened more gifts. It is always more fun to share Christmas with children!

          Aubrie's new books
          Cody's digital camera taking a picture of his new African knife (Katie is cringing in the background)
          Big hugs for the GREAT gifts!

          We spent the rest of the weekend relaxing, resting, and…

          ...playing ANGRY BIRDS!

          Not to mention hitting the trails for some great snowmobile rides (we missed you Larry).

          Sutherland Team #1
          Cody is ready-great snowsuit Katie!

          Do you notice a lack of pictures of any adults Up North??? Our nephew and niece are SO cute! Thank you Sutherland family for a great Christmas!

            Christmas Eve

            I thought I could fit all of our Christmas adventure into one post. After all, it was one trip. As I looked through all of the pictures and fun memories, though, I realized that for your sake I will split our crazy travels into a few posts. It will encourage you to stay tuned!

            We began our adventure Thursday, December 23rd. We loaded up the Camry (and I mean LOADED) and drove to Chicago with Christmas tunes playing in the background.

            Friday, December 24th we followed the Smith family traditions. We began the day on Skype with the missing Smith family (Rick, Ann, Katie, Rachel, Julia, and Caleb are in Kenya).

            Merry Christmas in Africa!

            We then admired Bev’s beautiful table (Ann this picture is just for you!).

            Followed by eating beef tenderloin, mashed potatoes, sweet potatoes, the Smith salad, broccoli and cheese, corn, and resurrection rolls (these deserve their own blog post at another time…maybe Easter). The Smith Christmas Eve dinner is a tradition-it is the SAME every year…we love it!

            Dinner is always followed by the Christmas play. With four missing actors and actresses, this year’s play was a bit unorthodox, but still meaningful in its basic story. I must say it included the most graphic birth of Christ I have ever seen (way to go Hannah).

            Michele and I watched in warmth!

            We ended the evening opening gifts from one to another. The highlight this year was a foosball table for Matthew, Mitch, and Mason. Thankfully, our choice of sweatshirts for our nieces were a hit.

            Thank you to the Smiths for a family fun Christmas Eve!

              I resolve…to do less???

              I came out of this fall tired and weary. As my mom will quickly inform you, I have struggled my whole life with overcommitment. I always think I can do it all and do it all well. Plus, it it all sounds like so much fun!

              Jesse and I have had many conversations about sharing our household load (he is so helpful!) and cutting back on our commitments. Even with these changes, I was still feeling overwhelmed with life. It may seem silly, but my New Year’s Resolution is actually to accomplish less…or better stated, to plan to accomplish only a few tasks each day.

              In the past, I always tried to do as much as I could every minute of every day. I was feeling like all I did was work with no breaks and no downtime. My mind was constantly spinning.

              Now I begin each day thinking about one to three things I want to accomplish and what fun thing I am going to do when I am done. I can always accomplish more things if I want, but I don’t feel the pressure of having to do everything all in one day. I have started a to do list to keep track of the big things that need done, so I can free my mind to relax when I have finished my daily tasks.

              So far, I feel much better…and I have even finished a book…just for fun!

                Survivor

                When I lived at home, my mom and I started watching Survivor. I have continued watching Survivor for the last 11 years. It has gone as far as having Survivor friends…a group of people getting together the evening of Survivor to share dinner and watch the show. Sadly, CBS changed the day of the week of Survivor and Jesse and I had a previous commitment on that night. I continued to watch the show the next evening. I also read Jeff Probst’s blog and the Ponderosa clips from the jury.

                I enjoy the challenges, but the most interesting part to me is watching the social game. When you put people at the minimum of their basic needs, it is crazy what they will do for a million dollars.

                I am of the opinion that Survivor is a game and the way people act on the show is not what they are like in real life, but I know others disagree with me.

                I’m already excited for Season 22: Redemption Island!

                  Tradition!

                  In marriage one of the greatest blessings is joining two pasts into one…including two sets of holiday traditions. Jesse’s family celebrated Christmas Eve with the whole family and opened presents and then stockings. My family traveled to Indiana each year and ate specific Christmas cookies.

                  Together we have begun a new set of Christmas traditions. It all begins by cutting down the largest Christmas tree we can find. We go Christmas tree hunting the day after a snowstorm and when it is well below zero degrees.

                  Christmas Tree 2007
                  Christmas Tree 2009
                  Christmas Tree 2010

                  Another tradition is taking a day off of work for Christmas shopping. When you live in a big city, you are always trying to shop when everyone else is not shopping.

                  Lastly, we always spend Christmas with crazy travel plans.

                  Christmas 2007 (Chicago, Indiana, Neenah)
                  Christmas 2008 (Chicago and Neenah)

                  This year we will drive to Chicago for Christmas Eve with the Smiths. We will then drive up to Northern Wisconsin for the Sutherland family Christmas. On Tuesday we will return to Minneapolis to fly to Phoenix, AZ for Christmas with the Lashbrooks. We love our crazy plans and our amazing families.

                    We Made It!

                    On Saturday, December 11, I graduated with my Master of Science degree from Minnesota State University-Mankato. I must take the opportunity to thank my supportive and loving husband for helping me accomplish this goal. He willingly helped pay for my graduate degree, he lovingly encouraged me through hours of homework and projects, and he thoughtlessly served me by taking care of the details of our life while I was so busy. This past week we were remembering that I have been working on grad school for the past two and a half years. We could not even remember what life was like before I had classes to complete. We made it!

                    To some of you, December 11th has another significance. It is the date of one of the Top 10 snowfalls in the Twin Cities. I started hearing about the blizzard on Thursday night. My mom, dad, brother, and sister-in-law were all planning to come to Minnesota for graduation celebrations. I called my mom to warn her about the snow.

                    Once everyone arrived on Friday night, we found this notice from Mankato State. We looked into getting a hotel for the night but decided to sleep in our comfortable beds and leave at 6:30 am Saturday morning in hopes of making it to campus for the Department of Education’s hooding ceremony at 9 am. My dad and Jesse awoke and shoveled the first 7 inches of snow. All six of us piled into one car and set off. On the drive to Mankato (81 miles), we were met with unplowed highways and blowing snow. At 9:10 am we ran into the Performing Arts Center slipping and sliding through the parking lot on the ice beneath the snow. My family sat down and I ran onto the stage for my hooding. We made it!

                    After the ceremony an administrative assistant helped us map a route to the graduation ceremony through the academic buildings of campus, but we had to cross one street to find the tunnels. With our first steps out of the building, we were slipping, sliding and falling on the ice. We turned a corner up to the building, and the wind and snow almost blew us over. Laughing and joking, we found the Taylor Center and attended the ceremony. We made it!

                    After the ceremony, we all piled back into the car for the drive home. Driving through the streets of Mankato were treacherous, and we left behind cars  and trucks spinning their wheels. Once on the highway, we traveled at a slow 30 miles per hour. We caught up with a caravan of cars and attempted to travel with them. My dad had Jesse and I in the front seat as spotters. Every minute he asked, “Where am I?” Based on the few pieces of the road we could see we would answer left lane or right lane. The snow continued and the wind picked up. Many times my dad would ask, “Where am I?” and Jesse and I didn’t even have an answer. We couldn’t see the road, we couldn’t see the caravan of cars, we couldn’t see anything.

                    I did see a sign for a hotel 2 miles ahead. We saw the hotel but saw no way to get to the hotel. We decided to take the next exit. Getting off on the exit, our car got stuck in the snow. We could not even see roads to turn on to head in the direction of the hotel. We stopped in a turn lane to decide what to do. An angel in the form of a tow truck pulled up alongside us. We shouted AmericInn out the window. He replied, “Follow me”. He lead us through “streets” a foot deep in snow but we continued on knowing if we got stuck he could pull us out. With gale force winds blowing us down, we ran from the parking lot into the hotel. We made it!

                    I explained that we had six people. A woman at the desk let me know there were two king bed rooms available. The woman next to her was on the phone explaining that they had two rooms available. The person helping me looked at me and asked, “Do you want the rooms?” I replied yes and the person on the phone was out of luck. We got the last two rooms in the hotel. Later my dad asked, “How much did I end up paying for these rooms?”

                    We went to our rooms and collapsed for a rest. Thankfully, the hotel had a family restaurant across the parking lot. We spent the evening enjoying dinner and watching the movie The Lion, The Witch, and The Wardrobe. We slept boys in one room, girls in the other.

                    This morning we set out for Eagan only to find more unplowed roads and a driveway covered with 4 foot drifts. The boys shoveled a path and we were home. The snow storm total in the area where we were was 20.5 inches. We made it!

                    Our adventure and detours this weekend add another story to our crazy family memories. Thank you mom and dad for your dedication and encouragement. Thank you Eric and Alaina for your support and sacrifice. I love you! We made it!

                      How do you wear this?

                      After working for two and a half years on my master’s degree in Library Media Education, I will be graduating from graduate school on December 11. Because I worked so hard, I decided I wanted to walk in the graduation ceremony. Plus, you get to wear those fun hoods, right?

                      Well, this week my graduation apparel came in the mail. I opened it up and started putting it on. To my dismay, I could not figure out how to put the hood on. I did what any child of the technology age would do and googled it. I read articles, watched videos, and STILL can’t figure out how to wear it. And they are going to give me a master’s degree???